The calm after the Ben-storm

Whew, it's been one of those days I'm sure we all have experienced those tantrums, I do what Ben wants days. I ask "Who's the boss and makes up/keeps the rules?" Ben says "I do, Ben does" - hmfph.. mommy disagrees and says "no, I make the rules." Hence you can see our power struggle today.
Let me just say I am sooo glad to finally get this kid calmed down and napping... Of course it's only minutes away from big sister gets off the bus so we will see if the golden silence stays. :/